would you let your husband work at a strip club

Ashlee - posted on 11/17/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )

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I never agreed for him to have the job when he asked me .he took the job behind my back.he works a lot of hours there

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Meghan - posted on 11/20/2013

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The fact that he took the job behind your back makes him seem less trust worthy.Instead of discussing it with you and helping you feel comfortable with the decision he just forced you in to it. I would be even more uneasy that it seems like he s pulling a fast one.

April - posted on 11/19/2013

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Is he able to find work any where else? If it's his only option or job available to him at the moment then maybe that's why he took it but i find it strange that he didn't tell you he was planning to take that job...
Anyway to ease your mind a little if your husband is a trustworthy man you should have nothing to worry about, when a person works in places like that everyday the excitement of everything fizzles out. Do you think the men working there as bouncers or bartenders get excited by seeing the same girls do the same thing night after night? To them it's a job. Nothing new, same old. Plus the women who work in places like that usually need money and unless your husband has money to throw around i highly doubt they would be interested.
If you don't like your husband working there you should talk to him and tell him how you feel.

Ashlee - posted on 11/18/2013

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The thing is his boss says I can walk thru the door whenever I want I'm always welcome but its just a nasty place I'm pregnant again were having our third baby.I don't feel remotely sexy anymore.he always wants sex.a clean house .and everything perfect its really hard

Ashlee - posted on 11/18/2013

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Hi he is a chef there he works a lot of hours from like 2:00 p.m cooks for dancers and customers.and slow days 11:00 p.m on busy nites until 1:00 a.m

Meghan - posted on 11/17/2013

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I wonder if this is a silly question, but is he working at the strip club as a dancer or as a bouncer or a bartender? I guess it doesn't really matter. In my head I couldn't be comfortable with it either way. I feel like working in a place like that is too tempting to anyone. There is too much nudity and a sexually charged environment. Unfortunately, most people cheat with someone they work with. In this particular case, they are already pretty much naked in the first place, so getting from hanging out in a bra and panties to having an affair is a very tiny difference. I couldn't do it and no matter how much I trusted him I don't think I could trust the other people around to respect your relationship.

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