yesterday was my birthday...

Cleaver - posted on 11/30/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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it was my birthday and I decided to do a bit of running around and do a little bit of shopping because thats what i wanted to do.

when i was leaving i woke up my husband and he started to yell at me asking me where i was going after i told him 3 times i started to say 'im not telling you' because he wasnt listening to me anyway. so he grabbed something of our sons and broke it. so i grabbed the boys and left.

when i came back alot later them i planned because i was upset at him and didnt want to deal with him. when i got back my toddler was hungry so i grabbed nuggets on the way home. he again started to yell at me and then when he realised that our son was hungry he flipped out calling me a retard and stupid, and other things much worse. he continued until i was going to bed. it was the worst birthday i have ever had. i love birthdays, holidays and stuff like that.

i am really getting fed up of him doing things like this its not good for our kids to hear him talking to me like this and its not normal that our toddler is used to this behaviour. i want to leave him im not sure anymore if i want this situation (him supporting us and i taking care of cooking, cleaning, and caring for the kids) i deserve more respect then this. what would you do he does this alot its really getting old and im getting fed up

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Cleaver - posted on 11/30/2012

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well i wanted to bring my boys and i left today im at my moms for a couple of days atleast

Amber - posted on 11/30/2012

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it sounds like you need to tell him good bye.....but have you tryed to talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel...yeah i wouldnt put up with that...he really dont need to be doing that wear the kids can hear him..because when they get older the are going to think that its ok to talk to women that way...Sweety i know how you feel as far as you have to do everything and it feels like they couldnt care that you spend all day cleaning and running after kids and they think well i go to work all day and she dont do anything but sit on her butt......but try to work it out but if you cant just tell him good bye....because it was your birthday he could have took the kids so you could of had you time...and the yelling he didnt have to do...Yeah every woman deserve respect.and as my mom told me if a guy dont respect you then hes not worth it

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