step mom

Beth - posted on 07/06/2017 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Ok I have a question no bashing pls
How can I have a stronger relationship with my 10 year old step daughter all we have been doing is fight like she always fight w me when I ask her to do chores or do anything
But when her dad tell her what to do " ok daddy" like really??? Why can't u say ok n be good to go w me
and here I am the "bad guy and it's been almost a year since they moved in w me her n her dad and it like we r automatically defensive to each other even when i am nice n I try so hard to not get mad I keep calm and try to keep her calm while I remain calm I need tips and help
her real mom is not in her life anymore and she hasn't seen her mom since she was 7... yes she get upset that her mom isn't around anymore
She met me when she was 8 almost 9
This is normal??? For an older daughter?
And my Step daughter always try to compare her self to a 6 year old too
I have a 6 year old daughter and she's my princess the love of my life!!!!
I'm just trying to fix this and be a better mom
I been doing research!!
But I'm running out of knowing what to do o AM TRYING!!!



i posted this earlier now i cant find it how do i find my old post it say i got replies but i cant find it im confused if u can personally email me thatll be great thanks

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Mom - posted on 07/13/2017

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I'm going through a similar situation, minus the defiance. Just wanted to say I hope things look up! ♥

Nicosia Monique Chisem - posted on 07/12/2017

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Yes you suppose to spank her in then sit her down and talk to her and let her know why you done that so she would better understand

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