StepMoms handling significant other's mama drama

More and more in today's society, we have blended families. Another sad fact is that most of the time, we step moms have to handle the drama that sometimes comes along with our significant other's baby mama drama (to coin a widely used phrase). Here is a place to voice concerns, ask opinions, offer advice, or just plain old vent some much needed steam.


What to do?

My husband and his ex have been split for over a year the 27th of this month my husband and I will be together for a year, here is my problem she says she is over him and wants...