Does the pain ever go away?

Rose - posted on 05/15/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




I know its very raw for me still, as I gave birth to my second daughter Imogen on 20th April 2012, she was breech and after a very difficult, stressed birth I gave birth to a beautiful angel.

We layed her to rest 8th May and a lot of people have said to me, that after the funeral my heart will start to fix, the pain starts to go because she's safe etcc.

I just can't see or feel any of this?! I'm still so angry and confused.



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Rebecca - posted on 05/27/2012




Hello Rose and welcome to this group. I am so sorry for your loss. My twin daughters passed away on July 4th, 2003. I can tell you with most certainty that time does heal your heart BUT you have not had time yet. There is a grieving process that everyone goes through. There really is not a time-table to how long that lasts.

Turning to God is how I got through this. I prayed and prayed. He healed my heart knowing that my daughters were with Him and that I would see them again. Hope this helps.

Louise - posted on 05/15/2012




Rose I am so sorry for the pain you are suffering right now. It has only been 4 weeks you are still in shock. You will feel numb. Nobody is expecting you to carry on like nothing has happend. Take as long as you need to work through and process this almighty shock you have been through. Only when you have got your head around things will you be mentally able to move on with your life. Having your other daughter there should be some comfort for you.

My advice is to take one day at a time Rose. Eventually you will find peace and then you will begin to feel again. ((((hugs))))

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