Teen mom's that are proud :)

Bryce - posted on 08/03/2010 ( 15 moms have responded )

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Hi everyone my name is Bryce , and I am a teen mother. Well not yet but in the next couple weeks i will be. I am currently 33 weeks pregnant , and having a baby girl. I am very proud that i am going to be a mom ... even though she was not planned i am very happy that i am having her now , and not later. She is going to be the best thing that has ever happened to me. And personally she has already changed my life around. Before i got pregnant i was very irresponsible. I don't understand why older mothers get angry when clearly this makes us grow up a lot faster , and take responsibility for our actions. I myself am a lot happier being pregnant , then when i wasn't. Please share any stories you may have , or anything you would like to say. But this community is not meant for older adults to come in here , and judge us , or put negative things. :) Good luck to all you teen mothers !

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Catrina - posted on 02/22/2013

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I'm catrina. I am a teen mom I have been for 12 weeks yesterday. For the mommys to be I think it is great. Its exhausting but it is the best thing in the world to me. I didn't know what I was having because my little girl is conservative lol so I didn't know until the day I had her. Her name is chrystal and she already loves to talk and smile and giggle :-) the only problem with my situation is my baby's father and I fight every day and I don't know what to do cause I need to do somthng before it gets physical :-( I love him but I don't know what to do to fix our problem. Anybody have any advice for me?

Hannah - posted on 04/28/2012

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my boyfriend and i wanted a baby to bring us together....im 17 and my parents are split, and my mom wanted to move away from the town my boyfriend lives in... and his parents are trying to split us up... so we decided to have a baby to bring everyone together, i have never seen him happier than when we are talking about him being a daddy, he glows and i am just so glad he will be there for me....i still go to school and when i come back to my locker and open it, there are baby pictures and i love you notes ALL OVER.... this choice has definatly been the best ♥

Heather - posted on 12/20/2010

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Im very proud im 16 && i have a three month almost 4 lil boy.
i couldnt ever go back, even thogu im young and everything i grew up for my lil man, and nothing is more important to me. me and his father live together && raise him together hes great with him..

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I may not be in this caterogy now but i was when i was 14 lol i got pregnant with my first at 14 had him when i was 15 he is 4 now, got pregnant with my daughter that is 2 now at 16 had her at 17 and then my 3rd child that is 1 now i got pregnant and had him when i was 18... I Am A Proud Teen Mother :). Just to let the young moms know my saying is Take one day at a time :).

Teenmommy10 - posted on 09/16/2010

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im a teen mom. im 14 years old. and i grew up so fast! At first when i found out i was pregnant i regreted makeing the choice of keeping her. but later in the pregnancie i realized i was blessed. i didnt tell my mom untill she realized i was pregnant(we naturaly dont have a good relationship). she told me that i would have to do every thing by myself and make things work. she said that all she would help with is putting food in my mouth and a roof over mine and my daughters head. i didnt really complain much because i had spoken to the father of my baby and i told him what had happen and he found a nice side and offerd to help with Isabella and he watches her while im in school and he gives me money. Me and him were never close. before i found out i was pregnant i hated him. and the reason was cuz he raped me. and i kinda give him props for atleast helping me. i dont trust him with her, but if i wanna stay in school and get money i kinda need him around.

Cherelle - posted on 08/19/2010

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your more than welcome there are sooo many people out there that automatically critisise young mums when matter of fact we actually make the best mothers as we have more time for our children so in return we get a lifetime of joy (im in no way slatting older mothers i just know my facts) my mother worked for teenage pregnancy and its in her booklets. i know alot of older mothers and they do an amazin job. i think that if your old enough to have sex then your old enough to be a parent its a choice we make. people can be so judgemental but if you go back hundreds of years women were having babies as soon as they started womanhood so why the big drama now. i say good on anyone who has a baby its the most special experience in the world i know i certainly wouldnt change my son for the world. x

Bryce - posted on 08/17/2010

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Well CHERELLE congrats on your baby boy ! :)
I am glad that women are actually joining this community i have made. Thank you for the support !

Nicole - posted on 08/17/2010

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I just wanted to say that I joined this group because I know how it is to be a teen mom. I had my first child in high school so I understand the difficulties that come with it. I also want to let all of you out there know that I am here if you have any questions or just need to talk to someone who understands. I am currently a mother of 3.

Cherelle - posted on 08/17/2010

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thanks hun, good luck to you too hope your life is full of bundles of joys hehe. x

Cherelle - posted on 08/17/2010

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IM PROUD. i didnt have him until i was 18 buh i was pregnant at 17 so i thought id join and i saw that a very nice woman was in here (issy) congratulations to all of you you are showing every1 that just because we are young doesnt mean we cant be the best of moms i truly believe its better to have your kids young anyway you can share your whole lives with them. i actually have a lil secret although it cant happen just yet buh i really want anuva baby. my son has brought me what i have been searching for a meaning, that unbreakable bond everything about being a mother just makes me want to hold my head high and say i have that one precious thing that needs and wants and loves me he brings me what no man can. having a partner is just a bonus haha. good luck to all. xxx

Bryce - posted on 08/16/2010

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Well she has no control over him. She can't do anything about it if he never ends up paying her back . There is no law about it.
Just be cool about everything. I am sure everything will work out :)

Isabel - posted on 08/16/2010

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Yeah same my boyfriend was telling her last night that HE wants to move back and she just instantly said she will hate ME forever if he does that like WTF lol its him who wants to move back too she acts like were taking her kid away from her. i do not understand why. she dose not support me in any way like i ask her questions about pregnancy and she just says like a one word answer. but she expects me to stay here where if i were home i would own my own hose because my dad has given me one and here my boyfriend owes her money and she expects me to pay it back for him!!!

Bryce - posted on 08/16/2010

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I think his mom should shove it up her ass lol no offence.
Congrats on the baby by the way . && it's good that he wants to support you :) Good luck girl !

Isabel - posted on 08/15/2010

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I am a teen mum to be and I am proud I am 3 months my name is Issy and I am a lot happier pregnant. Our baby was kind of planned but did not work out how we thought it would. I Moved over to another state because my boyfriend did. I already wanted a baby and was ready but not ready to have it away from home. we both thought if we had a baby we will
definitely move back. See he is a mummy's boy and she said she would never talk to him again if he moved back and she was being a total bitch...he is 19 and were from Australia your officially an adult at 18 here and I am only 16 so I do not understand why he is not moving back. we are stuck here. and I have no family and friends to support me. but he said he is very supportive and we are definitely moving back in a year or two and he dose not care what him mum says so that is good! I just cant wait to have this baby! :)

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