Hate lying

Kayla - posted on 05/07/2010 ( 4 moms have responded )




Here's the story: I have a close family friend who used to be my DM at the place I work at now. Well she got fired under false assumptions in my opinion. So my current boss hates this family friend with a passion and talks bad about her in front of me. I can't say much because it'd be my butt if I did. Well I got a new job offer with this family friend that I really can't pass up. I will be working less days (longer hours though) so I can home with my daughter more. So I gave my 2 weeks at my current job however I can't tell my Boss where I'm going because it will be 2 weeks of HELL I mean absolute HELL. So I kinda told a white lie that I'm going to take some college courses which I want to but not at the moment. So I can have my last weeks there easier. However I feel bad for lying but it's really the only choice cuz if she knows I will be put through a lot of crap, not that I'm not already on a daily basis but it will be much worse. I guess I just feel like a horrible person atm for making things easier on myself.


Ashley - posted on 06/02/2010




ya i would its ur old boss who was an ass.. she doesn't need to know what you are going to do after you leave that job.. as long as you are ok with it then its not hurting anyone..you shouldnt feel bad at all

Alison - posted on 05/07/2010




Lying sucks but when you have to do it to make things easier for yourself then it's justified... IMO :)


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Chantelle - posted on 06/02/2010




it's okay hun everyone has to tell little white lies to make life easier don't feel bad you have a daughter who comes first and if you come home strssed because you have decided to tell the truth then she'll feel that you did the right thing i would've done the same thing and if you feel really bad tell your friend about the little white lie i amsure she'll understand

Kayla - posted on 05/08/2010




well now i'm not fully lying i was offered a photography side job by another close family friend today!!!! :) See it's all better now

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