so I am a step mom that have been raising my fiancees children the youngest was 9 months the biological mother is a meth user and the judge ordered us to do a 3111 evaulation and the evaluator stated his concerns to us which were hair follicle and the move out of our apartment and get a bigger place. The concerns for the mother was she to be drug free and get help and she could be a compent mother. CPS has been involved and the Riverside courts and San bernardino courts as well she hasn't had the children but little bit at a time. well the recommendations stated to give her the children primary custosy and he would get alternate weekends not every weekend every other weekend. So we did the drug test hair follicle he took his court ordered classes and even gained a new steadier job. Since 4 years ago when it started the mother has never taken a class she has only submitted urine test when CPS came out she refused to take a test stated that she couldn't produce saliva and came back a couple days later. Well long story short on Fiday the Judge awarded her Primary custody and he now gets every other weekend. We were devasted and we are not sure what to do. Her mother the maternal grandma is basically raising the children because she is never there she lives with her mom and the judge says thats ok. My concern is that the children aare drasically being moved out of a more stable environment and that he shouldn't be treated like a dead beat dad does anyone have any advice..... Should I get a lawyer or what

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