2 year old behavior issues

Tiannagittens - posted on 11/25/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My daughter came home from grandma the other day and called me a fucking bitch in front of her so I addressed it and my mother said that she called her a bitch too and I know that that's a lie because I do not swear in front of my daughter. This is not the first time she has come home from being with her swearing. She once went beep beep and then said move you fucking bitch. As a background my relationship isn't good with my mother to begin with I use her mostly to have her in my daughters life but need help from you guys as to it's worth it or not and ways to have her stop. Disciplining my child doesn't work such as eye contact eye level talking and time out chair. I do not hit but when she comes home from a day with my mom she hits left and right. I'm afraid she'll go to daycare and say these things and dss will get involved. Please help

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Tiannagittens - posted on 11/28/2016

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We have had the talk thanks for the responses. I do discipline her that way sometimes it works and others I tend to find a nap is necessary.

Michelle - posted on 11/25/2016

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I have a very strained relationship with my Mother and only really keep in contact with her for my children. She is the only Grandparent they have in the same country!
I have never relied on my Mother having my children regularly. I pretty much raised my children on my own as it was my choice to have children so they are my responsibility.
My oldest is 15 and he has probably spent a total of 10 days with my Mother in his whole life!!!!! She also doesn't even offer to look after my children so it works for me.
Is there any way you can limit the time she is with your Mother? You know where the problem is and I would suggest cutting down on the time they spend together would help. I would also not leave your daughter with your Mother alone, visit together.
What Ev said is helpful in regards to discipline but it doesn't help with the cause.

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