4 year old son grabs boobs

Carree - posted on 07/05/2009 ( 5 moms have responded )

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Hi, I have a 4 y.o. son who has started taken notice in my breasts. When he reaches for me, he'll reach up and take a squeeze. Also when I am reading to him he will inch toward me and lay his head on my chest and slide his hand to touch me. What is the appropriate words to say to him that this is not ok for him to do to me and others?

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Carree - posted on 07/05/2009

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Hi Christina, No offense taken. My husband does not does not display that type of behavior in front of our children. Thanks for your advice:)

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Tracy - posted on 07/07/2009

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I had the same issue. Just told him he is to old to be doing that and to stop. he did.

Jessica - posted on 07/05/2009

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My son went through that at about the age of 2. I just flat out told him he doesn't touch mommy there. And I would take his hand off my breasts as I told him NOT to touch me there

Christina - posted on 07/05/2009

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Hi how ru? Wow this is kind of hard question but there is always a solutions to it. Well if u don't mind me asking does he c his father doing the same actions?If so then it is up to ourselves that some action r words should be avoided fr children. Then just use ur gentle n soft voice to tell him that he is hurting u r others by doing that n it is not a polite r a good behavior a child should have. Then a gentle punish to him if he did it but also don't 4get to encourage r praise him when he listen to u . Hopefully the details above can help n improve ur situation . No offend if i said anything wrong, take care n God bless u all!!

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