Father calls son faggot for acting like a girl, please help

Tanya - posted on 05/28/2013 ( 9 moms have responded )

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My soon-to-be husband gets really mad at my son for the way he talks. He feels like he talks like a girl walks like a girl moves his head like a girl. How can I get it to stop cause I'm tired of it and he feels like he spends too much time with me and that he cries too much. Someone please help.

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Kury - posted on 06/01/2013

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I'd drop that jerk in a hot second! I personally could never ever love and want to marry someone who acted that way about my son. Even if your boy talks/acts like a girl or even if he is gay doesn't mean he should be called names or not be treated with respect! How could anyone be such a jerk to a little boy? Drop that fella at the curb, he is trash.

Michelle - posted on 05/30/2013

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I think you need to get out of that relationship and nurture your son. Stuff what your Fiance says, it's your job as a Mother to support your child and stand up for him when he can't.

Michelle - posted on 05/30/2013

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So like Amy said, why would you want to marry someone who is like that? Homophobia is a huge problem and just as bad as racism in my opinion and there is no way I would be marrying someone like that.
You also need to think about the type of person you want your son growing up around. Do you want him to be so demeaning to others or tolerant of everyone race, culture and sexual preference?

Amy - posted on 05/28/2013

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I'm assuming you've already told your soon to be husband that he's being very inappropriate! At this point I would be making him your ex fiancé. It's your son he's supposed to spend time with you, why would you even considering marrying someone like this????

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Tanya - posted on 05/29/2013

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yes I have thought about that and have told him he needs to not call him a faggot and he always says stop acting like that's then

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