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True2diva5 - posted on 07/25/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My little girl is to depended on my I can't get away from her for 5 min I can't go to the bathroom or shower without her there I have to lay in the same bed with her while she sleeps if I get up she gets up I can't even spend anytime with her dad we can't watch tv or anything together its got so bad that he picked up playing Xbox so we he comes home from work he plays til he falls asleep and we always fight about. I baby he to much and they we don't spend enough time together

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True2diva5 - posted on 07/28/2013

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I WISH MY FAMILY WOULD TAKE JER BUT FOR SOME REAson they won't and it this time we can't afford a sitter

Cassandra - posted on 07/27/2013

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Do you have any relatives nearby? If so, pick one day a week and leave her there. Go on a date with your hubby or have some alone time. Don't worry about her hating you or it being traumatizing to her delicate psychy. She will learn to live without you constantly by her side. Be sure to let the sitter know that she will scream and cry for long periods of time at first, but that it is normal. So if they can't handle that, they can let you know right away. And you will also need to be strong while dropping her off. Don't get sucked in to holding her until she calms down before you leave; it will sabatoge your entire escape. Just walk away; she will still love you when you get back. My sister is having the same problem with her son and she is finally taking my advice and it is working wonders not only with her son's behavior, but also with her marriage. Good luck.

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