my 1yr 11month old daughter is very naughty does spankig solve anything

Blessings - posted on 05/18/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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my 1yr 11month old is very very very naughty she even bites the younger sister when im around ,but their granny says she does it whn im around but when with their granny she kisses her and loves her will spanking a little do

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Shannon - posted on 05/19/2013

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I have a 1 year old and she loves to get into everything she shouldn't as most kids do. I say her name in an authoritative voice and then I say no. When that doesn't work I give her 3 pats on the bottom and remove her from the situation. This usually works for me. She understands now what no means and she usually stops whatever she is doing that we don't want her to do. I hope this works for you.

Shauna - posted on 05/18/2013

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Well, in a way I agree with amy. I think that she may be trying to get your attention because she feels like she's not getting enough. She is used to getting most of your attention and now there is another little one and ten times more things to do so she is getting less attention.

But I have to disagree with the fact that spanking her is going to teach her to hit. I was spanked when I was little and I spank both of my kids and them still act up every once in a while, but they do not hit each other or anyone else.

All I can say is maybe try and it and see if things get worse and if they do then you might need to try something else. You could try getting a chair and doing a timeout or calm down place that is where you can see her and she can see you and every time she gets up start her time over. She needs to sit one minute for every year old she is. Since she is almost 2 you could do 2 minutes. You could even try that first if you really don't want to spank.

Amy - posted on 05/18/2013

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It probably has to do with the amount of attention they are getting. Grammy is probably able to give them more attention because she's not trying to do a million other things like us moms try to do. Kids just want attention they don't care if its good or bad. So your daughter has probably realized that in order to get your undivided attention without distractions she needs to misbehave.

When she bites say no biting and then completely ignore her, and give her younger sibling all the love and attention. But you're also going to have to give the oldest lots of attention and praise when she's being good! That way she sees they when she behaves she gets more of your time. At this point if you start spanking your just going to teach her to start hitting.

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Blessings - posted on 05/19/2013

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THNK YOU SO MUCH WILL TRY AND DO THE CHAIR PART SOUNDS INTRESTING FOR ME ASWELL

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