My 2 & 1\2 year old is out of control

Lucia - posted on 10/15/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My daughter has been recently throwing the worst tamtrums ive ever experienced. When told no she kicks screams bloody murder hits throws things amd is just all aroumd destructive throws anything in site even goes out of her way to hit sometjing or someone just becauae she is in a bad mood, doesnt want to be dressed pr be in her carseat or wants to be but not strapped in, i am completely venerable at this point amd have no idea what to do time outs DO NOT WORK ANYMORE, pleaseeee help !

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Michelle - posted on 10/22/2016

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I also found giving children a countdown on when we are were leaving somewhere.
You tell them: "We are going in 10mins, have a last play" Then tell them again at 5mins and 2 mins. It does help to prevent tantrums when all of a sudden told they have to go.

Michelle - posted on 10/21/2016

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I don't agree with the spanking.
You need to find her currency. It could be her favourite toy or no TV etc. You let her know that if the tantrum continues XXXX gets taken away. If she keeps going then make sure she sees you take it away. You may even want to throw it in the bin.
Let her know that you are the boss and won't give in to the tantrums.
Yes, it's a battle of wills at this age but it does pass, only if you set the rules now!

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