my almost 3 year old refuses to go with her father ( he has been in and out of her life) what do i do?


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Lisa - posted on 07/19/2012




To be honest since it's obvious he wants to make no effort i would simply just keep telling him to meet you halfway.

Mariana - posted on 07/18/2012




No we do not have any court invoved, we are trying to make things work without the court being involved. I was taking her every other friday and picking her up sunday at 6 because he has no transportation but i did it for 3 months and i finally got fed up off doing everything. I asked him a month ago to get a ride and meet me half ways and he did not end up coming through and she stayed with me. Come around this past weekend we meet up but she refused to go with him crying real tears which she never really does, she was mad and upset at him. I didnt force her to go. He is constantly in and out and i think she is starting to notice.

Thank you Amy :)

Amy - posted on 07/16/2012




How is she once she is with him? Do you have court ordered visitation? If you do have a court order and you don't send her you will be held in contempt of court. If you don't you don't have to send her but he can file for visitation and say you were denying him access to her.

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