My ex started taking our child to his new girlfriend's house for overnights without my permission.

Lisasinsane - posted on 07/26/2011 ( 3 moms have responded )

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He usually gets her weekends and didn't tell me he was doing this until after. I'm livid--I don't have a problem with her per se, haven't met her actually. I just feel uncomfortable, and I'm angry he did this without talking with me first.

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Lisasinsane - posted on 04/14/2013

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Ok, is there a parenting plan approved by the courts? Because you would have to follow it or file to change it.

But otherwise, you do not need to bring them there, and I wouldn't if I could take back time.

I brought her over and said overnights were not ok with me. When I returned, she assaulted me and got a restraining order, and I couldn't go back to see my child again. Of course, she said I assaulted her*, but that's not what happened, and I shut up once we both called the police.

Bottom line? Do you know this woman? If you don't, I don't know that I would chance it. If he wants to establish parenting time with his children, tell him take it to court.

Lisasinsane - posted on 07/26/2011

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Here's some more background: he can't go back to his apartment and recently, temporarily "moved in" with her. Can I refuse to let him take her for overnights until he gets his situation worked out?

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