Another one? plans change and I'm confused

Kim - posted on 09/20/2010 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Me and my boyfriend have been together a year in October, I have a boy he's 3 in December.
My boyfriend is also a year younger then me and is in his 2nd year (out of 3) in Uni.
I want to go to college and put our son in nursery more, and he says that he wouldn't mind me going to college but he's not sure about the timing and he's not sure he wants our boy in nursery so much yet.
My mum went to college after she had me and worked most of my childhood and now we don't have a great relationship. My dad hasn't been with my mum since before I was born and he's not around a lot because he has his own family.
His mum and dad have been together since before he was born and didn't go back to work until after both him and his sister was at school. His Dad works and has worked forever.

I want to go back to college and work for at least a year before I have another one.
But I wouldn't mind having another one now to keep the ages close because it would be easier having one in half to a year.

He wants kids after he's been in a job and earning, so he can give his children everything that he's had and more.
But he wouldn't mind one now for the same reasons as me.
He also wants me to be a "housewife" until the kids are at school.

4 plans one life.
Confusing.

Any suggestions would be appreciated
thank you xx

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Kim - posted on 09/25/2010

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bless I'm sorry for what happened to you. I wouldn't mind being a housewife but I get bored so easily. thanks for the advice though. x

Kristina - posted on 09/24/2010

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I have always wanted to be a housewife, growing up I never wanted anything more than to just be a stay at home mom. Not really the easiest thing to seek, it seems so hard to find a husband that would want a wife that would stay at home and keep the house and raise the children. I told my ex-husband my dream and dating everything was fine, but when we unexpectedly found out we were pregnant right after we got married the idea wasn't that good anymore and he left us.

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