How do you get hubby on board to have a 3rd baby?

Heather - posted on 08/08/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )




I think I would like one more. Hubby is to scared and happy we got a boy and a girl already. How do I come to final decision? I'm not ready to be done.


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Jackie - posted on 08/10/2009




if you have a freind or family member that just had a baby and they are so happy and excited about it. Have your husband go see the baby and how happy the new father is and that just might change his mind. I wanted another a baby and my husband was done we went to see my brothers new born little girl and when he came home he said ok we can try I know have 5 year old twins one boy and one girl.

Krista - posted on 08/09/2009




If you figure it out, let me know. I'm trying to get my husband to agree to one more. So far, he isn't budging.

Zojoho - posted on 08/08/2009




I was in your situation, and my Hubby in YOUR Hubby's situation..I wanted more - he didn't, he was "done" with babies and flat out refused to have any more. Me, I had the "pigeon pair" (girl/boy) but on the inside I knew I wasn't finished having babies..I just yearned to be pregnant again..

Hubby made sure the we were sooo careful when making love that it was driving me insane..LOL, that was until we BOTH got "sozzled" one night (the first time I had touched Alcohol since becoming a Mum mind you) and this one time we threw caution to the wind in the heat of the moment..only for me to fall pregnant.

I was sooooo excited about it, as I thought I'd never ever get that opportunity again..Hubby on the other hand took about a week or so to warm the idea and then he was over the moon too.

Coming to an agreement on how many children to have is really difficult, especially when 1 partner wants a certain amount and the other doesn't.

For me now, whilst I'm happy with what I do have, I have started to get that yearning feeling back to have "just 1 more" LOL, I'd love another to even the team up..ahaha. but I don't think I could get that lucky..heeheehee.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do. xx

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