My daughter's father abandoned me when I was eighth months pregnant:(((

Inessa - posted on 09/20/2010 ( 8 moms have responded )

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Hi !!! I,m a single Momm.My daughter's father abandoned me when I was eighth months pregnant, and since then I've been on my own.He is not on my baby birth certificate and has no legal rights to her.I don,t have no support,no calls and no help from hem:((( I met him in Italy and I still living here.He is merican and I,m from Ukraine.Before he moved back to USA he was in military and we been together almost for 2 years.He told me that he go get a new job and work and me with oure baby come to him.Then I foud out that he have a family in USA,but he still lie to me and keep telling that he just fighting to get hiS son from dope head and he will lie cheat and steal to get him....I just tired of all this story and I don,t know Do I have to beive him anymore?And if not,so what can I do in this situation?Hope to hear from you soon;) THX!!!

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Christy - posted on 09/20/2010

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He is full of, what we like to say in the U.S., SHIT! I am not sure of the laws outside the U.S., but if he isn't on the birth certificate there is probably not much you can do except MOVE ON and make a life for you and your baby. Good luck to you!

Kim - posted on 09/20/2010

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I'm sorry to hear he left you and I'm sorry to hear he's a ****head but you really are better off without him if he's being threatening and had a secret family?! Here to talk to if you need anyone hun :) x

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Wow...I'm so sorry to hear that...Some guys are just worthless, If he was really meant to be there for you he wouldn't of lied to you from the start. I wouldn't trust him at all, I imagine how hard that has to be all of it and im so sorry your having to deal with all that pain but im here if you need anything

Inessa - posted on 09/20/2010

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Yes I was thinking about going somewhere,it can help me to relax from that stuff I think about...anyway,Italy is a beautiful country to travel;))))))

Zoii - posted on 09/20/2010

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by the sounds of it your bettr off with out him ... if he can do this to you he can do it to anyone .. just think about your daughter and live a happy life together .. go on holidays and stuff like that... goo luck darl

Kim - posted on 09/20/2010

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He's not on the birth certificate he can't do anything. he can prove he's the father by taking a test but until then he's got no rights over your son. my son's sperm donor left when I was 6months pregnant and I've not heard from him since and I'm happy he did. You're better off without him and remember until he's got proof he's his then he's got no legal rights to him or you. x

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