my sons behaver going on 4 years helpppppppppppppppppppp

Samantha K - posted on 09/30/2009 ( 1 mom has responded )




my son is going on 4 i have tryed everything with his behaver and iam totley worn out he damands everything and belives everthing is his 247 he tells every one what to do and when to do it he aguse everything slams doors takes everything of people hits constantly shouts he dont like me playing anything with him he starts throing things hes up from 5am to about 9am and dont sit down once he has to constanly do things anything i say he completly ignores me iv tryed time out telling him to say in his room for the day taken his toys away ignoring his behaver asking him what is bothering him etc everything has to be an agument i need to fined a way how to change his behaver he has a sister that is 1 an half an she is allso copeying him now an we are due anther baby any ideas please


Ginger - posted on 10/01/2009




I have a 3 year old...soon to be 4, having a few behavior problems as well. I do say she is a lot like me, so that doesn't help out fights, but with her, I have taken away a few things for a period of time that she truly loves, and it shows her what will happen if it keeps up. Time outs have worked at times, I do say she has had a few little pats on the bottom, which I hate, but it has fixed her attitude at times. My girls knows who is in charge and she wants to be there, but as long as I win our battles, she knows what is what. Don't give in to your son, it will be a tough battle, but well worth it in the end. I am due for my 4th baby in march....and as long as they all know mom is in charge, it will stay smooth most of the way. I have a 11 yr old, an almost 4 yr old and a 1 1/2 yr can do it...I belive in you.

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