Sleeping through the night

Melissa - posted on 04/07/2010 ( 4 moms have responded )




One of my twin boys WILL not sleep by himself in his own bed. He wakes up screaming until I go get him. I have tried to let him cry himself back to sleep but he will cry for an hour or longer. Sometimes he wakes up his brother. What else can I do? I hate to hear him cry and scream and he gets so worked up that he sounds like he is trying to catch his breathe. Please... any adavise??


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Anastasia - posted on 04/12/2010




My daughter used to wake up once every night and cry, I would go and feed her then. By her 11th months I thought it's time to break the habit. So at first when she woke up and cried, and went in gave her some water and left. The next night I went in and just cuddled her back into her blanket and left and the third night I didn't go in at all ... she cried a little bit, but soothed herself back to sleep. She woke up a few nights yet, but I never went in. It took about 1 week and half until she slept completely through the night.
My suggestion is to try it in steps ... one night he will soothe himself back to sleep.

Alecia - posted on 04/07/2010




My son had an issue with sleeping through the night also. He is a Mama's boy and never wanted to miss anything. My doctor told me at 9 months he should be able to soothe himself to sleep so I would leave him in there as long as it took for him to cry himself to sleep. Two days later he got the message and would only cry for a few minutes. He's 2 now and is in a toddler bed which is a ton easier because he can play and then just climb into bed when he's tired. Hang in there!

Theresa - posted on 04/07/2010




How old are they? They were together in the womb and now maybe he's lonely. Would it work to put them in the same crib together? I knew someone who had twins and that was what they did until the boys got too big for one crib. They liked being together since they always had been.

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