when does the trouble 2's end

Shankia - posted on 03/13/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )

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my daughter have tantrums and does not wanna do anything i tell her

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Storm - posted on 03/13/2010

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My 3 year old is like that now... it's not fun, but it's just their way of asserting their independence, try and make it something fun... Like Ravyn was ignoring me when I told her to pick up her toys, but then I said I'll race her to see how many she can put away before i can and she was all for it.
trial and error, keep at it until you find something that works for you.

Deserae - posted on 03/13/2010

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Unfortunatly, for my girls 2 was nothing, 3 was the rough age, Just dont give in. Stay strong and let them throw that tantrum and try to completely ignore it. Feeding into it only makes them realize that tantrums help them get what they want. We work on a color card system red=bad day yellow=not so wonderful green= good day and they can earn a super star for above and beyond. Work out little things to reward them with if they get a green or a superstar each day.

Deserae - posted on 03/13/2010

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Unfortunatly, for my girls 2 was nothing, 3 was the rough age, Just dont give in. Stay strong and let them throw that tantrum and try to completely ignore it. Feeding into it only makes them realize that tantrums help them get what they want. We work on a color card system red=bad day yellow=not so wonderful green= good day and they can earn a super star for above and beyond. Work out little things to reward them with if they get a green or a superstar each day.

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