Identical twin girls 14 - dealing with party invites

Laura - posted on 09/24/2016 ( no moms have responded yet )




I have identical twin girls who are best friends. They are very shy and struggle making other friends. It's been challenging because they have started high school at a new school where they don't know anyone. They were both invited to a sleepover, but are very nervous about going. One has the courage to go and the other does not. If one decides to go and the other does not, what can they tell the girl who invited them. I don't want to teach them to lie, but I also don't want to push the one who is not ready to go because I'm guessing it won't go well. Thoughts?

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