18 and pregnant again!

Jasmine - posted on 01/25/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )




I am so confused, hurt, and torn idk if having another baby while in college is the best thing for me now I already have a 10 month old and I am currently 9 wks preg. I really need some support!


Ev - posted on 01/25/2015




I am sorry to hear that you are on a second child and worried that its going to be a long and hard road to complete your goals. Its never easy with having older kids either let alone doing your goals without the children.

I just can not understand that if you knew having just one was going to be hard, how you had relations again and got pregnant knowing this. Did you not use some sort of birth control? Did he not use it?

Regardless of the that, you have to prepare for a new baby. You may have to set aside the goals for college for a while and concentrate on your babies. You need to after this one is born set the father up on child support, visits, and get custody. You need to do the same for the first one no matter if the father is the same one. You should also be looking into getting things to help with rental assistence unless you are at home with someone, WIC for you and the babies, food stamps and any other things that can help this along. Its a long hard road. But if you made it this far with one, you can make it with two.

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