19 year old son

Gill - posted on 07/29/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Hi,
I love my son dearly but he won' t help with the household chores. He works as an apprentice for his father and does not earn alot, but will not lift a finger to help in the house. I get so mad I have decided to go on strike and not do his washing and ironing. I want him to do these things for himself but I suppose I have spoilt him in the past by doing everything for him, problem is I feel terribly guilty. I am alone in all this, its making me sad!!!.

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Gill - posted on 07/30/2013

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Thank you for your responses, I am going to do that and be strong, after all it is for his own good. Then he may learn to not take me for granted and appreciate what I did for him before, but not now.

Gill - posted on 07/30/2013

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Thank you for your responses, I am going to do that and be strong, after all it is for his own good. Then he may learn to not take me for granted and appreciate what I did for him before, but not now.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 07/29/2013

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Like Evelyn, my boys have been doing their own...well pretty much everything except fancy laundry (dress clothes).

They cook for themselves (especially if they don't like what I'm proposing to fix) They do their own laundry, are responsible for their rooms (and, yes their rooms are a damn pit, but I ain't cleaning 'em!) They are required (house rules) to at least fumigate and disinfect their personal areas once a month, and to keep the public and shared areas of the house presentable. They clean their own bathroom, and each takes turns in the kitchen and yard.

And mine are 15 & 19. Absolutely no reason that young man can't 'man up' and learn to do some of this himself...

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