36 weeks pregnant second child and emotional abusive relationship

Kathrine - posted on 10/13/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




I'm 36 weeks pregnant today with my second child and the emotional abuse seems to just be getting worse. He has zero patience for me, snaps at anything I say, calls me terrible names, has wished he could punch me (mind you said while 1st son is sleeping in my arms) ect. I have been with him for almost 12 years as high school sweethearts and the moment I got pregnant with 1st child it was all down hill granted I am not perfect I suffered post Partum and it was rough but does that make it ok to be treated poorly. I can never seem to be right I'm always at fault and blamed for everything what do I do?! I don't want our 1st son to grow up without a father in his life do I just stick it out! Please any advice will help


Michelle - posted on 10/13/2013




You are doing more harm to your son bringing him up in that environment rather than in a broken home. Just because you leave doesn't mean his Father won't be in his life anyway.
YOU don't deserve to be treated like that though. No one is perfect but no one has the right to abuse another (verbally or physically).
I would suggest getting yourself some counseling to build up your self esteem and to help you realize you are a strong woman and you don't need to put up with being treated worse than the family pet.

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