42, and desperate for another baby, hubby (45) extremely unsure,any advice pls?

Sue - posted on 01/21/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




i adore my near 3 yr old to bits, all my antenatal grp bar one, has had more kids since!!!, am pleased for them, it so depresses me, hubby extremely unsure, he doesn't think we r stable enough, as we do av differences n argue a bit, i don't think i can come to terms with having an only child, he is v social, and really needs a playmate, av even been on adoption websites, which as a lone parent, in uk, will be VERY DIFFICULT TO DO i expect, anyone ever been in the "same boat?", i cant be "bothered to av intimacy now...." i just don't know wot to do,,,,


~♥Little Miss - posted on 01/21/2012




Well, really the both of you should be sure you both want another child. Maybe sit down and really figure out the pro's an cons together. Wishing you luck, but having 1 child is a wonderful thing. Having 2 is great to, but having one you can give them all of your love and attention. Having only one child is not the end of the world.

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