8months pregnant and boyfriend has cheated :(

Cara - posted on 11/23/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




I am nearly 8 months pregnant and I recently found the texts between my bf and old best friend. They speculation was always there that there had been something going on between them and now I have proof. I have known about theses texts for over a month but did not want to say anything yet because I just had my baby shower last weekend and I didn't want to ruin that for the family. But now that the shower is over I don't know what to do. His parents have been so support throughout this process of pregnany buying the crib and stroller and car sear. I feel obligated to stay with him. He tried to get together with an ex recently but it never happened... And I just found out that he may or.may not have purchased a new phone for his sons mother. He lies to me a lot and keeps things hidden. And I don't know what to do. He's not the man I thought I fell in love with. And I do love him but fear he doesn't love me the same. My grama is old school and would like me to give him an ultimatum, not sure how to do it though. I'm scared and I am almost 8 months pregnant and need to figure out the best way to handle the situation and gt what I know out in the open.


Michelle - posted on 11/23/2014




You need to confront him/them and let him know you are leaving because you're that stupid to think he won't do it again.
You need to get yourself a lawyer and set up visitation and child support now. If he has been doing this with numerous women then he doesn't love you at all.

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