Rain - posted on 05/30/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




My family and boyfriend want me to get an abortion and I am kind of sunshine but I don't think I can hold a baby in my tummy what should I do please help


Adriene - posted on 05/30/2013




what do you mean kind of sunshine.

are you 18 or older.

Ultimately you will have to live with the decision you make. Having a baby means being a mother for the rest of your life and being responsible for another person for a minumum of 18 years. Most parents help their kids well into adulthood. My sister had a baby when she was 14 and graduated from high school with honors while working part time and living with our aunt. She had help from a few people. Then she went to college and worked full time and graduated with honors. She did not have that much help from family after high school but she was able to use community resources to her advantage.

It is also a big decision to have an abortion. You have to be okay with ending something that could grow into a fully formed infant and once it is done you cannot take it back. Many people are happy with the decision to have an abortion because they did not have anyone to help them raise their baby or have other problems. Many people do it and regret it for the rest of their lives. I think you need to talk to a counselor or a third party about your decision and make sure YOU are okay with it. I wish you the best in whatever you decide

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