Advice ASAP

Wanda Taylor - posted on 12/10/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )




Hello I am mom to Brittany who is 21 and special needs I got married in August this year to my neighbor who lived under us with his mom who passed in June this year now his oldest sister was her and my husbands power of attroney last 5 years she is a pain in the blank.

Now next Friday she wont s my daughter and I to travel to Baltimore Maryland along with my hubsand now I do not wont to go I do not like her and I have to much to do here at home I mentioned the day she brought it up about my niece having her baby the day before we are to leave the 19th think come back on that Sunday or Monday.

Now I need to decorate the tree do grocery shopping my daughter gets a check for me to shop for her then I do not wont her to miss her day support party that following Monday she goes Tuesdays Wednesdays and Thursdays but all I see is her you can do when I come back she is controlling bossy my husband was babied and controlled when it comes to her he is very quite easy going and just goes with the flow I am not feeling well my nerves not wonting to go.

H.ow and what do I say to her so I can stay home and do what needs to be done I go my mind is going to be on all I got to do when I come home I do not like how she treats my husband she keeps me upset which I hate and if any of you have any advice on how to talk to bossy controlling people please let me know I see she sees me as easygoing as him and we have had our moments she hollered at me on the phone before we got married I told her you do not speak to me that way


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Michelle - posted on 12/10/2014




Yep, what the other ladies said. She's your SIL, not your Mother, you don't have to do what she says.
I am curious as to why she has power of attorney over your husband though. Is your husband incapable of making his own decisions?

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 12/10/2014




Explain that your schedule won't allow for a trip at that time, and leave it be.

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