Advice needed ! regarding 9 month estrangment between son of 19 and 2 year relationship of partner

Kim - posted on 10/03/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )




My son and i have been estranged now for 9 months .Every day is a battle . I last saw my son 3 months ago when he was a little drunk and was asking for me so his freinds came and got me. His last words to me was " i will never forgive you untill you finish with him".

My son left home as he could no longer stand my boyfreind , two times they came to blows.

My son was controlling of me and at times he didnt show me any respect, but he is still my son and i miss him dearly .

These last 9 months have been a struggle and now my relationship is breaking down as i wonder to myself , what if?

I would do anything to have back what i had with my son. He was at one point my best freind. He is the eldest of four and he has always been loved. Me and his father divorced when my son was 9 and hes never really had anything to do with his father. I come from a strong bonded family, and i just dont know what to do now.

I have tried to reach out to him so much , but he has totally nothing to do with me or any of his siblings or any other family member. I know where he works but thats it , i have no other contact info for him... Just need some advice if anyone can give me any.

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