anger and loss

Suzanne - posted on 06/20/2009 ( 3 moms have responded )




5yrs ago i was pregnant and my waters broke at 11 wks and i gave birth to a baby boy then he died in my arms 5hrs after, since then i have only been to his grave 6 times as i start to feel alot of stress and anger every time i went, today i had to take my friend to the hospital where i had him and i found it hard going there it brought back so much sadness, does anybody know how i could get over the loss of my son just so i could go to his grave and to the hospital without feeling sad and anger.


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Stephanie - posted on 06/20/2009




Please try to get couseling. My sister lost a girl a couple of years ago and she did counseling. She said that it helped her a lot and she was able to get through the grief easier. I hope you can find peace in your heart.

Devon - posted on 06/20/2009




I am so sorry for your loss. i couldn't begin to imagine what you are going through. i really don't know what to tell you except take it one day at a time. you will never get over what happened and try to talk about your feelings it will make alot of difference. visit his grave as much as you can it is good if you do that and even if you cry, do it, it is better then bottling everything up. i hope this helped a bit and again i am sorry to hear about your loss

Erinn - posted on 06/20/2009




I have no answers for you and won't pretend I know how you feel because i've never been there myself.. I just wanted to say im trully sorry for what you had to go through!! I don't know if you believe in God or not, but prayer is something I do... A LOT!! I'm sorry I couldn't help you more! Hang in there and take care!

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