baby mom not following court order

Kristina - posted on 02/18/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )




let me start off by saying I'm not hear to bash anyone just want to get some advice and opinions me and my fiance have been together for the past 3 years we have a nice home for kids stable environment the only issue is is that he has a4 year old son with his previous girlfriend that he never really had much of a relationship with but child come out of it that he loves very much since me and him been dating she has been bitter since day one and has always held a child from him so he went to court and got a court order within the first few months of our relationship and he she has always made a big stink about me being around her son but he was granted visitation rights then a few months later out of no where she had court papers served to him saying that they had to go to court for a protection order that he supposedly beat her in her sleep witch was complete b.s he has lil to none contact because she is psycho so they went to court she had no physical evidence or even a police report but the judge will grant it to her because she said she felt scared for her life she then try to get it ordered for their 4 year old son but the judge said absolutely not he's not even here in your statement so he was still awarded his custody time she then went and filed for another PfA for her son but never served him the papers so he missed a court date not knowing he then got a lawyer to find out what was going on and they went back to court based off of he was never served papers so then they awarded him supervised visits for 2 months because she says that he beat him witch he dont she has lied to the courts at our house is unfit Child Services has came and cleared our home she has also like to the court and says that she had him in therapy because he was scared of his father but she never had proof of that and the conciliator let her get away with he's back to his normal visits every week from Tuesday night to Friday morning she demands a phone call every Wednesday and Thursday even if the child to sleeping she harasses my fiance to wake him up.she claims to be having preschool at home a teacher comes in which we never heard of and when he's asked about what program it is she completely ignores it also won't give him records of the threapy she so called house him In.we were scheduled to have him this past Monday on Presidents Day my fiance went there to pick him up at 9 a.m. And she refused to give him his bday because he had to go into work for a few hours and said that ur fiance is not his mother she is not to watch him so he missed his day she does not fall anything in the court order and give nothing but a problem he would like to go for full custody and prove that she is not stable n uses their child as a pawn is it possible he would have a good chance of getting more time and she can be helping contempt for not following the order? He really just wants to be there for his child and be civil with her but she makes it almost impossible after all this time she is still bitter n lies and trys to ruin the relationship with his son any advice on this would be helpful thank you


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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/18/2014




evidence, logs, pictures, documentation. And have her charged with contempt of court once you get all of the evidence

Jodi - posted on 02/18/2014




File contempt if she is not following the orders.

And keep a diary. You need evidence, so make sure you keep records of all his visits and all the times she refuses.

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