bestfriends boyfriend slept with his sisters bestfriend

Sheena - posted on 01/13/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )




So my bestfriend's boyfriend came to her new years eve and said he cheated on her twice that year. The first time was the beginning of the year, and she said he revealed that the last time was with his sister's bestfriend. (Who would come to her house sometimes with his sister to party or whatever) She said that he told her that it was a night his sister, and her bestfriend, and her boyfriend got into an argument. (Which was about a week before Christmas) They left from over his sisters house so he could drop his sisters bestfriend and her boyfriend off, after the police made them leave. So I guessing he dropped them off at 2 different locations, but before dropping her off, he ended up sleeping with her. (They were drunk) My bestfriend said that her boyfriend said that he had to tell her before the year was over because he loves her too much and he didn't want to go into the new year with secrets. They've been together for six years, and I really feel sad for her because I actually loved their relationship. She has been really depressed and angry lately, and I don't know what else to do. He did come to her and tell her, which is a huge plus, but I do understand how betrayed she feels. What do you guys think?


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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/14/2015




Well, it was nicely couched in the "my best friend" scenario, but...

Stop drinking and driving, stop partying until you can't see straight, and expect to have good memories and experiences. If one wants to remain faithful in a relationship, drunk or sober, they will. If they do not want to, then they'll take any opportunity that drunkly staggers into their wake.

So, get a test done for anything that may have been caught from the guy, and consider oneself lucky that they found out before they committed further.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 01/14/2015




I think they should not be drinking and driving first of all. Second of all, this is like a bad soap opera. If he really loved her, regardless of fighting, he would not slept with another women. This all sounds very immature, and kind of ridiculous.

Him telling her does not wash his sins away so to speak. It doesn't mean anything. If he has cheated twice already, he will do it again. If I were her, I would be hitting up a clinic to get tested for STD's, and drop him out of her life.

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