Bio mom tring to set me up

Cynthia - posted on 08/04/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




Bio mom took children to hospital claiming i hit the the older child my step son there were no bruises or any marks for that matter. NO i did not hit my step son, in fact i personally don't believe in spankings. once the police got there and got him alone to ask questions the boy broke down. No i had never hit him, i had tapped his leg once to get him to look at something ( i don't remember that but it does sound like something id do). The poor child just wanted his mom to be happy, he didn't want to hurt me. He thought this story would get rid of me and mom and dad could get back together. So why did i say bio mom setting me up. SS is only 9 he is mentally delayed and rounded to the IQ of a 6 yr old. Hes not capable of making such a story up along with motive, and as it is with so many special children deceptions not his forte. this was planned out and planned out by an adult. I am angry at her, I'm sad he'd so quickly dismiss me, and I'm worried what she going to do next and how do i protect myself. My job is child care provider I contract with CPS all the time and DSHS cases I'm trust lined, and life scanned I've been doing this for 10 years and have never had a complaint. The workers I've worked for say i have nothing to worry about. But I'm worried whats this woman going to try next, If SS had not broke down and told the police every thing my whole life would of been gone and possibly even my freedom.


Jodi - posted on 08/05/2013




If he has the IQ of a 6 year old, he is perfectly capable of making this up with a motive. Unfortunately, I hear your pain. My stepson once told his mother he didn't want to come to our house one weekend because I hit him all the time. I mean, I've never laid a hand on the child, ever. I, too, was very hurt and upset to think he could say these things to his mother. Thankfully, his mother didn't THINK I would have done it, but she had to ask. It turns out, he just didn't want to come that weekend because he'd been invited to a friend's house for a play date. I think bio mum clearly over-reacted, and her first point of call should have been your partner (like my husband's ex did).

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