blended family issues and help?

Rlhoward3 - posted on 10/25/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )




moved in with my boyfriend with my three boys and he has two girls, its really hard to have disapline and punishments that work. our styles are way dident, im easy on the kids and he is hard on them. i would like to have an easier way so we dont fight and so we can have a loveing relationship and be happy.


Sharlene - posted on 10/25/2011




Hi , My self I have two children from first marriage my current husband has got three children from first marriage and between we just had two babies of our own .It's really on all of you's because have to get a routine happening and the big one is back each other up,All of them will bitch scream, tell on each other make lies up down everything to make it impossiable. If something happens like someone else we take each child seperate Qstion them and if a story match up we ground them and make them sit in there room, the kids will use everything to make you and your partner fight I know by experience but you's need to back up always and sit and explain to them that we are family there's special treatment we treat each child same,Believe me it is especaially hard at first but once the kids relieze that mum and dad backing down it would better.If you ever want to chat message me anytime.Cheers

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