bulling at school

Aysha - posted on 07/18/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )




Hi guys, my 3 and half years old girl suffered a kind of bulling at school with a girl of same age. they were kind of best buddies but I never really approved because of the behaviour of the this girl. ( she says bad words and even uses the F word). other problem is that she is very violent and she hits my daughter because she know she will do nothing. I'm very sad and don't know what to do with the situation,
already spook to the principal and she moved form one group to another, and they separate them on play time. but I know how hard is for my little one, because she adores this girl, but she just hurts her. the other day I told her not to play with someone that hurts her and she said to me " mummy she hit me, but she said sorry".
What do I do??? what I'm doing wrong?? should I teach her to hit back to protect her self??? please help


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~♥Little Miss - posted on 07/18/2013




No. Don't teach your daughter to hit back. Teach her to speak up, and tell this girl not to hit her. Teach her to go to people she trusts when someone is hurting her, physically or emotionally. If this girl is still acting out, I would have a sit down with the teacher, principal, and the little girls parents. This is not ok. Unfortunately, it is age appropriate though. Little kids sometimes don't know how to express themselves, so they hit.

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