child sexual behavor

Jade Shanzell - posted on 11/15/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )




hi my son is 4 years old and he is taking his clothes off and doing it with his cousin and friends that visit our house i really don't know were he got this bad behavore from and i don't know how to stop it its my only child and my one niece has been doing things like this for a long time and lies about it please advise is needed on this situation.


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Jade Shanzell - posted on 11/15/2012




okay my brothers child which is 8 years old was touched by a girl that was a bit older than her which no longer stays with them and my so was touched by her my brothers daughter and he has been doing naughty things with other girls and his cousin at first i thought nothing of it but now its really worrying me cause it the second time i have caught him and told him its wrong and punished him .y brothers daughters come to my house after school everyday i let them play outside do i stop him from been with them i have booked a appointment with a doctor to help him and me handle the situation

Amy - posted on 11/15/2012




I'm confused too, what exactly does "doing it" mean? Obviously if it's what it sounds like you need to get your son to a counselor to find out where he learned this behavior from and as a parent don't leave them alone. Now if you mean they are just taking their clothes off again teach him that you have to leave your clothes on when their are visitors, teach him about boundaries and privacy, what's appropriate and what isn't. Then obviously don't leave them alone together.

Michelle - posted on 11/15/2012




What do you mean by "doing it"? Surely a 4yo wouldn't know what to do unless he had seen it.

What has he been exposed to?

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