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Jenny - posted on 04/10/2015

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shawnn i have been on to social services and now they have moved contact to saturdays and my sister is to supervise so there is a little in improvement, can i take social services to court for extra contact or would that be a bad move thanks shawnn for any advice

jen

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/09/2015

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Jenny, you negate every bit of advice given and claim that you don't know what to do, even after its been explicitly spelled out.

Jenny - posted on 04/09/2015

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shann you have no idea what i am doing to get kids back and its not my fault at end of day when some cunt beats the shit out of you and rapes you believe me i am working at it

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/07/2015

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There's got to be more than one.

If you want your kids back, you have to be willing to WORK for it.

Jenny - posted on 04/07/2015

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did that last time and got what i thought was good but she turned out to be crap thanks anyway

Chana - posted on 04/02/2015

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Shawnn just tells it like it is. I have not posted on this before because it seemed like others all had the right ideas. You just need to get your act together, stop making excuses, request a new case worker and keep moving forward.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/02/2015

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Do you NOT understand these words: "If you feel that your case needs reviewed, REQUEST A REVIEW from child services. If you feel that your caseworker needs to be replaced, ASK FOR A REPLACEMENT." Each country is different in how they handle these things. You need to do what is appropriate for your circumstances.

We cannot get much more clear than that.

Jenny - posted on 04/02/2015

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i am not making excuses i just dont no where to start i no i need a new solicitor i need one who knows his stuff and what do i do about my social worker do i just request a new one

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/02/2015

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"What do I do now?"

You've been told. Request a case review, and a new caseworker if you feel that you've been slighted. Abide by caseworkers recommendations on improving your situation.

Stop making excuses. My MIL was in an abusive relationship. As soon as she realized it was jeopardizing her children SHE GOT OUT and sent the perverted asshole to jail. This was 35 years ago. She followed the recommendations by child services to help her children, and she didn't lose them. I'm married to one now.

Jenny - posted on 04/02/2015

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yes i have made some bad choices but i must say when you have some bastard beating you and controlling your life there is no choice but to do as he says i meet someone else and he helped me get my partner out of my life all that did was save me from him and he told lie after lie about me he won social services over but my solicitor was a trainee and lose everything what do i do now

Raye - posted on 04/01/2015

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I would request a new case worker. They can't say "never" unless they move to have your kids adopted out. They should set goals to help you get your life back on track and get your kids back. If you want them, you have to fight for them and do whatever it takes to get them back.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/01/2015

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From what I've read here, you have continually made poor choices regarding the children's welfare, so you're going to have to suck it up and abide by what you're told to do, whether you agree or not.

If you feel your case merits a review, request one.

Jenny - posted on 04/01/2015

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i will write the reasons y my social worker is like she is and then u tell me your views thanks for all your help

Jenny - posted on 03/28/2015

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my social worker puts me down no matter what i do i asked if my sister could have the kids but she said no and moved them to a strange relation of my partners and that did not work out now there with my sister my children are so emotional when they see me cos contact was dropped from 104 time a year to 6 when they moved them all i want to do is end this night mare firstly i am controlled beaten raped by my x partner for 16 years
i finally get him out my life and now my kids are taken

Jenny - posted on 03/28/2015

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the abuser was there dad whom wsa a drunk and violent and controlled my life i no longer have anything to do with him and never will

Jodi - posted on 03/27/2015

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Why were you still living with your abuser then? Are you still living with him? The obvious solution to me is to get the abuser out of your life. You did endanger your children by staying with him, so clearly the court believes you can't make good choices around your partners, so time to demonstrate otherwise. Get your life back together, abandon your abuser, and stay single.

Jenny - posted on 03/27/2015

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my five kids was taken because i couldnt protect them from there dad he used to beat me if i didnt do as i was told ans social services said they would take kids if there was any more incidents so i was frightened to phone police cos ss would say it was an incident at first i saw them twice a week but after the court hearing can only see them 6 times a year what do i do to get more contact

Jenny - posted on 03/27/2015

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my five kids was taken because i couldnt protect them from there dad he used to beat me if i didnt do as i was told ans social services said they would take kids if there was any more incidents so i was frightened to phone police cos ss would say it was an incident at first i saw them twice a week but after the court hearing can only see them 6 times a year what do i do to get more contact

Jodi - posted on 03/27/2015

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It depends on why you have only been ordered this contact in the first place.

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