daddy left :(

Laura - posted on 12/18/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )




I started to talk to my sister friend about a year ago. we try to date a couple of times but he would stay for 3 weeks and run saying I was difficult, but then he would come back and I would take him back because I actually care last time we try to date he left me because I was to jealous. Two weeks later I found out i was expecting a baby. He came back only for three weeks and said I don't make him happy. He broke my heart, but i am concern about my child not having a father at all. What should I do.


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Jodi - posted on 12/18/2013




There is nothing you can do!! You knew what this man was like when you slept with him and got pregnant, you should have been more careful! You certainly can't force him to stay. However, he is entitled to know that you are having his baby, but PLEASE don't use it as a way to get him to stay with you. Also, just because he is not with YOU, doesn't mean your child won't have a father. He still has rights to see the child, he just doesn't have to be in a relationship with you.

Once the baby is born, you need to file for custody and visitation orders, as well as child support.

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