dating a single dad? HELP!

Jojo - posted on 01/17/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




I am going nuts! in a nut shell, just left my ex/baby daddy 7months ago(not the father of my first) and just as i left that relationship, the person I have had a huge crush on for 12 yrs started to come into my life. Well we are 5 months in this relationship we both not only like each other but have admitted to being in love and want to spent the rest of our lives together. the Catch! He has 2 kids, I have 2 kids, We only see each other every other weekend, it hurts so bad to be apart. I live with my VERY STRICK!! little help parents. I would like for us to begin a slow but healthy way to begin the process of getting the kids more involved? he wants to wait but from the sounds of it, it is not for a couple of more years! FYI left my ex for abuse, he left for abuse,(females can abuse also) we have the same common goals and ethics/morals, same parenting ideas! I do all his laundry, make food for his kids, I dont go out anymore, My life is work, school, kids, and him! I dont want to keep this every other weekend thing going, what should I do? I know he sounds controlling but a lot i do out of love and I have made poor choices when I have gone out! and so I want to build that trust again! (to many drinks!)


Tina - posted on 01/17/2012




All you can do is be honest with him about how you feel and go from their.

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