Dealing with my baby daddy while pregnant

Stacy-Lee - posted on 12/28/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I've been in an on-and-off relationship with the father of my unborn child for months since I found out he cheated on me.
I forgave him for that but perhaps I let him off too easily because everything's been a struggle with him since. I live with my mom now and I'm not sure if I should involve him in the baby's life or not.
I'm afraid that he'll be in and out of my son's life as he has been in mine.
What should I do?

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Mommabird - posted on 12/28/2014

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After seeing so many posts of women in your situation it makes me wonder if women think about their future anymore when they are deciding to sleep with someone. People think that sex is just to have fun and get a feeling of being loved. Reality is ANYTIME a woman sleeps with someone without protection they are choosing that person as a potential parent for their child. If the man isnt someone you want to share a child with and have ties to for at least 18 years...dont take a chance on getting pregnant. Now you're stuck having him as the father whether you like it or not. Start thinking about the child now because its not about you and him anymore, its about an innocent child who's father was chosen for her. Not trying to sound mean but its time for both of you to grow up, you're parents now, responsible for a childs life.

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Stacy-Lee - posted on 12/29/2014

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I will take what both of you ladies have said into consideration.
Thank you.

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