DEMON in disguise.... PLEASE HELP

Nellie - posted on 01/14/2018 ( 5 moms have responded )

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Hello Everyone,
So I finally met the man that I was suppose to have always been with about 3 years ago. My previous marriage was awful. I have 3 children from that marriage, 16,15 and 5. My children have witnessed, heard and saw many things that I wish I could erase from their memories. But I raised them to be treat others the way you would want to be treated. (So I always get compliments on their manners, respectfulness and they really are great kids) I've been very lucky I must say. My dream man also has a son he will be 5 in a few weeks. He is crude, rude, swears, hits, disrespectful, hyperactive, loud, annoying and doesn't care about anyone's feelings. His mother is the same way. There are never any consequences for his behavior. My children try to be patient with him but he is ruthless, mean and just plain awful. I feel that both of his parents are doing him a major injustice and disadvantage. We will be having a sociopath running the streets in the future if something is not done. He needs to be screened for learning disabilities and behavior issues. Its heart breaking, sad and exhausting. Its not just my children whom don't want anything to do with him its all children and the adults in his life including his grandmother, aunts and cousins. I don't know what to do.... I don't want him around my children...I dread the days that he visits I am even contemplating on leaving and staying somewhere else with my children when he visits... He causes nothing but stress between myself and my new husband. Even my husband can not deal with any more. We need help....... and now....

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Michelle_williams - posted on 03/06/2018

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agree. Time for his pants to come down and a brush or strap to be applied to his bottom

Ev - posted on 03/05/2018

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Again Karen--spanking does not help all issues. You have to look at all things involved to find a solution.

Sarah - posted on 01/16/2018

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Are you married? If so then you have to stick it out; because you married a father, not just a man. I'd encourage your husband to have his child evaluated; and he can do that with or without the mother's consent. Then, when you know what you are really dealing with, services can be started to help the whole family. Running and hiding while your 5yo step son visits? Seriously?

Ev - posted on 01/14/2018

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Being that you are the girlfriend there is nothing legally you can do but to suggest things to your boyfriend about his son. You two need to get on the same page if this is to continue as a relationship. If not, I would just end it. If the parents of that boy can not handle him now, they are in for sore life later on when trying to handle him.

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