Liz - posted on 04/13/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




I am recently divorce. I divorce my husband even though I love him. I had no choice but to divorce him since the cheating, lies, and the lack of interest for the the family didn't stop. ThIs has being hard for me to let go. I have no idea how to pick up the pieces and move on specially since it has being so easy for him to move on. He doesn't even seems to care for the kids. He haven't seen them for a year. So sad!


Ev - posted on 04/13/2014




It is sad and I feel your pain. I have been divorced for 12 years this year. Its not an easy ride but if you follow your heart and be a constant in your kids lives then you can never go wrong. I suggest after you get settled down more try to find something you enjoy doing and even something that allows you to meet other people and make some new friends. Get your kids involved in something also so they can have something to look forward to do. Also when you and your kids do something together as a family, make it all about them. Concentrate on what you have with them and then go with that. It will bring you closer to them and they will appreciate it. As for their father, if he does not try to see them or make contact with them, its on his head. He will regret his choices and actions when he can not understand why his kids won't send him a Christmas greeting. It takes time, do not get me wrong. I was five years getting to the point I was happy with me just me. Then I started to do more for me and worked on my kids too. We are closer for it. But keep the faith. I did.

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