Divorce, Michigan moving with my kids.

Kayliecia - posted on 09/27/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )




Just wondering, if i ended up moving in with someone that we weren't dating but we probably will after the divorce is final anyways move in with him and my kids do you know if i still could get custody of my kids? i know i spoke with legal aid today and they said that i need to leave and not let ben know where i am going. if it matters any Ben was the person that did all the stuff was looking at porn, talking to teen girls and just alot of stuff and i'm just moving on. Just need some answers. Ben is emotionally abusive and throws stuff around the house and punches holes and stuff in the walls.


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Amy - posted on 09/27/2011




Umm it sounds like you need some time to get your life together and based on your past choices it sounds like rushing into another relationship is a smart choice. I understand legal said to get away but to move in with someone else immediately isn't going to look good in the courts eyes, let alone the emotional upheaval your going to be putting your kids through. I think you should learn to be by yourself before bringing someone else into your kids lives.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 09/27/2011




Well, I have to say...get out...get far away, and if it is legal....do what ever you need to do. I would not recommend jumping into a new living situation with someone you are not even involved with yet. That might be to much for the kids. They need to time deal with mom and dad getting divorced, and never seeing dad again. They just need time to heal as a family unit with you. They don't need the stress of having moms boyfriend around permanently quite yet. I do not think it is the wisest move. This is totally my honest opinion on it.

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