do i make my husband choose between me or the daughter?

Sandra - posted on 05/13/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )




When I married my wonderful husband,, two years ago,, I knew he had a daughter, but he hadn't seen her for 11 years, x took her away. We discussed she would come for visits. After 9 months of marriage, the c x said he had to take her,, she was 12,, I begged him to wait because I had just been diagnosed with breast cancer,, he wouldn't listen to me,, so the day after my biopsy, we drove 400 miles to pick her up. The next 6 months of pure hell! Trying to cope with a total stranger ,, my health,, my employment,,, my husband being gone,, he is truck driver,,, I had no help,,, she was useless around the house! She went back to her mom for Christmas and stayed ,,, NOW,, the x says to my husband, "you're going to have to take her ,, i can't afford her anymore". SMH... I can't deal with it again,, besides I am not through with my treatments.. HELP there's so much more I haven't even touched..

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