Do you think I should take my X-bf back? I am confused.

Frieda - posted on 03/17/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




I have a 1 year old girl, his father cheated me with his X for about a full year and he had been gossiping me with a nanny sometimes, he is very stingy, during valentine or my birthday he never gave a present since we started in 2011. My X want me back, he also has a daughter after we broke up, He is caring and he is currently asking me to marry him. Do you think I should take him back? I am confused.


Rebekah - posted on 03/17/2014




Read the first sentence you used to describe him. You want that back in your life? It is up to you to figure out what you can forgive and if this person has "changed," but with a track record like that, it would be a tall order to expect that someone would change his ways in a short period of time. You need to be able to fully trust someone to let them into you and your daughter's life, and make a formal, legal, commitment. Do you really trust him enough to do that? Don't be clouded by promises and emotions... look at the facts. Does his behavior reveal him to be someone worth your time and heart?

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