Amber - posted on 09/16/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )




I have a four year old son who hasn't seen his father in three years. I moved to pa when he was 1 and met an amazing man when he was three. i had another child with this man and she is 6 months. we are getting married, i am in collage, and he has an amazing job and a beautiful little girl who is two. we want another child now and as much as i am sure i am scared of what people will think... what should i do?


Dove - posted on 09/16/2015




Didn't you already post this in a different way?

If you really want to have another baby and you can afford it... it's really not up to anyone other than you and your husband.

If you actually want advice... wait. You still HAVE a baby who is only 6 months old. Enjoy this time w/ your little ones and maybe in a year or two you could have another.

That's me though... I'd never want to have a new baby until the older child is at least 3 years old.. because you miss so much of their cute stages when you have to have your focus split between more kids. Since I had two at once (twins) I wanted at least 4-5 years between them and a third... but they were 6.25 when their brother was born and it was a very good age difference. Since the girls were in school a lot I got to 'kind of' experience what it would have been like to only have one child at a time and I wouldn't trade that one on one time w/ my son for anything.

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