Ex wife still gives me hell.

Samantha - posted on 05/08/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




I was a single mum but recently married and now a step mum, but the ex wife still gives me hell. she still believes that he is her man, un yet they were never ever married legally or in church. They just cohabited for 10 years.
She goes around telling everyone that i snatched her husband from her and even followed me to my church and attacked me there. She uses every opportunity to embarrass me.
she wont let her kids play with my daughter when shes with them yet when they are with their father they are excellent with her. I'm more worried about what effect this will have on my daughter (2yrs) where one min her step sisters are great with her and the next they totally ignore her.
I have now told my husband that he is not allowed to take my daughter to his kids, and i know this hurts him a lot because he really does love her a lot and now he doesn't know what to do. But i cant and never will tell him not to see his kids. He has talked to her but she is so stubborn and is always involving the kids in their arguments. which is one of the reasons he left her in the first place. i don't know how to deal with this situation especially for the sake of my daughter. Please help


Jodi - posted on 05/08/2014




Firstly, I am not sure what their marital status in the past has to do with any of this.

Secondly, was he actually still with her when you started seeing him?

Finally, what are his custody arrangements with his kids? Why does he have to have your daughter around her at all? What do the court orders say about custody/visitation?

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