father of child relationship

Nina - posted on 05/09/2016 ( 1 mom has responded )




I am 4months into my pregnancy and know I am unhappy with my partner, father of our child. I dont know what to do. I havnt been happy for a while. I know my emotions affect the fetus. He scares me and goes from 0 to 100 too easily. He is stuborn and can be very mean and childish. I have stopped working for the moment and he provides for us. I have no savings. I am unsure what to do. We live in Australia, I am not an Australian citizen but he is. If we break up then I am no longer being sponsered, left with no money and pregnant. I want to end it but dont know how. Please help


Sarah - posted on 05/09/2016




Happiness is a choice. Is there any desire on your part to seek counseling to try to rekindle feelings? What is your country of origin? Do you have family that can help you? If you leave him, how will you co-parent? If you really believe there is no hope for your relationship, then end it. Yes it will be very challenging but would you rather stay and build resentment? You don't want to raise a child in an unhappy family. I wish I had better advice.

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